Why is it that we fear change so much? Even change that we know is for our good, our betterment, and yet it is often received with uncertainty and discomfort. Sometimes change isn’t wanted, but most of us have experienced that type of change and when we reached the other side of it, we can see the beauty in why it happened. When I am coaching clients whether it is on personal or professional goals, I encourage them to FEEL how they want to feel with an achieved dream. To see what they want it to look like and to mostly be grateful and appreciative along the journey to their desires.
My goal (life purpose) is to encourage millions of people to live the life of their dreams as I live mine. I know my purpose as I can FEEL it in every fiber of my being. Yet, I too can constrict and become uncomfortable when what I think is the perfect equation to serving the world changes. This positive girl has to remind herself of what she mentors her clients to do. And that is to remain steadfast in the general vision of the dream and not get stuck in the details on how it unfolds. What I could see as a setback, could truly be a new way to do what I love and with who I love with more grace and ease. I ask myself if it’s fear of change talking or if it’s truly my intuition telling me there is an easier path if I let go of the one I think I should be on. I also remind myself to be gentle with myself as I process the change.
Moving forward, I invite you to embrace change whether wanted or not by:
Loving what is by knowing every door opening and closing is an opportunity to step deeper into love and commitment to living life to your fullest.
Being grateful for the discomfort as its in those ‘I don’t want this’ moments that we are able to clarify what we do want.
Being gentle with yourself and being okay with uncertainty as your heart and soul know that all will be well as all is well.
Mostly, my wish for you is to fully FEEL you are powerful beyond measure and by staying on course to living your dreams you will allow the potholes along the process to be just that…potholes and not game changers.
Until next time, change can equal restriction or expansion….choose expansion!
I am willing to live life filled with deeper love, laughter and happiness than I ever imagined before.
Words to Live By:
“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” ~ Maya Angelou
“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.” ~ Charles Darwin
“To improve is to change. To be perfect is to change often.” ~ Winston Churchill
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